Meet The Partners Of Famous LGBT Entertainers Published on September 9, 2021 ADVERTISEMENT Neil Patrick Harris & David Burtka I don’t know how they did it but Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka managed to keep their engagement a secret for 5 years! Pretty crazy! Both of these men are awesome and insanely talented on and off the screen. They became fathers in 2010 via a surrogate and were officially wed in 2014. We’re jealous!